Two weeks ago when it was time to do school, the kids seemed not with it. Even though they were physically there, their minds were elsewhere. Nothing out of ordinary happened. I knew then that we had to take a break from school. I decided to look at my school record and check how long we’ve been doing school. We’d been going at it for six straight weeks, and six weeks is just about the right time after which to take a break.
I decided to change our school plan. That morning I read a chapter from a book they like and then we took off to run errands. Even though running errands and getting things done seem mundane, my kids actually enjoy it, especially when it’s during a school day. We took it easy that day and then went to a friend’s house in the evening to swim. The next day we went on a horse ranch field trip and that was a blast. Weekend rolled around, and we carved pumpkins and hung out with friends. On Monday we went to see Ken Ham of Answers in Genesis present a talk on dinosaurs. What fun and relaxing time we had. The following day we resumed school and the children were more engaged mentally.
I’m glad that we were able to take a break from school when we needed it. One of the beauties of homeschooling is that you are not under someone else’s schedule. Too often homeschoolers see that they have to keep up with the public or private school that they impose a rigid schedule on themselves. We should really strive to see the needs of our children and determine what is good or could potentially be destructive for them. On that day when my children displayed a lackluster spirit at the start of school time, I knew I had two choices. One, I could just move forward and press on with our school schedule. If I did that, the children would be obedient and do their school work though I would have to bark at them (not a pretty sight) to get them motivated. I’ve been through this road before and it’s counterproductive. The end result is inevitable: one very unhappy family. Imagine the stress that daddy has to walk into when he returns home. Been there, done that, and we’re not going to repeat it. So, we opted for the second option of simply taking a break.
I know for some homeschooling parents that taking breaks as needed is a scary concept. You had planned out the curriculum for the year and in order to complete the course, you have to stay on schedule. If you miss a week, then everything is thrown off. In addition, there are music lessons and sports practice we need to keep up with. When taking a break seems so foreign or that you feel you can’t allow that, think about your goals of education. What’s the point of education? What’s your goal? Is your goal to produce educated individuals or go through all the books they’re suppose to study? In grand scheme of things, does it really matter much that your children are supposedly few days or weeks behind the schedule you planned out for them? What if you did complete everything you had planned, so what? Does God give you brownie points for having done that? Are you more spiritual?
The question is, are you sacrificing your children for the sake of adhering to a schedule? I want my children to love learning and sometimes this means taking a break and enjoying things that are around us. I don’t want my children to feel pressured nor stressed when it comes to school. Next time when you’re tempted to press on, look at your children and their needs. Would pressing on benefit them? Will they end up hating school as a result? We should strive to have our children’s well being in mind, not merely keeping a rigid schedule, when it comes to education.